Staying mobile

Having a driver's licence is a critical part of being independent and giving up driving is a major change to lifestyle.

Be sensitive

No one at any age likes to be told he's a dangerous driver, and studies show that most older people consider themselves relatively safe behind the wheel.

Hold discussions about driving plans before a crisis

A crisis may force a driving discussion to take place and may focus on ways to take away the car keys. Few discussions take place about driving behavior itself or strategies that help avert problems with on-road safety. Not surprisingly, initiating conversations with older adults about driving is difficult at best.

Watch for warning signs

Accentuate the positive

While you may find instances in which your parent is not driving safely, focus on what they're doing well. For example, simple trips around a town during the day may pose no hazards. Avoiding driving in some situations may be easier to face than stopping completely.

Include parents in all discussions

Your parents need to feel they are still in control and that you respect their ability to direct their own lives. The motivation for change must come from them, both for their own safety and for your relationship.

Help parents assess their driving skills and any problems the assessment uncovers

If your parents are agreeable, you can help them assess their current driving skills by checking with the an occupational therapists, doctors, or recommend a driving instruction "tune up" by accredited driving instructor.

NRMA Safer Driving School has 'Refresher' lessons for people of all ages. Our refreshers can help you sharpen your skills and provide you with the experience of having someone independently observe your driving skills and provide you with the appropriate feedback to enhance your skills. Many senior drivers have found this useful, particularly if they are approaching the stage where they need to have their license renewed.

For further information on availability and pricing and for bookings please call 1300 696 762 in New South Wales and the ACT.

Transport options

The car provides a simple transport option for us all - you check the fuel and if needed the street directory and then you drive to your destination.

For older people who older stop driving it will be more difficult. Transport alternatives will need to be found that allow them to engage in their usual routines - social activities, medical appointments

You may need to help identify available transportation alternatives in your area.

More information

Download the Helping our Parents Stay Mobile PDF (233KB/3 pages) that has a comprehensive range of suggestions.